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			<title><![CDATA[ ADHD &amp; Fatty acids (teen focus) ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11385/t/ADHD-amp-Fatty-acids-teen-focus-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <a target="_blank" href="http://blog.nutritiondata.com/ndblog/2008/02/adhd-fatty-acid.html">http://blog.nutritiondata.com/ndblog/2008/02/adhd-fatty-acid.html</a>
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A new study in <a target="_blank" href="http://www.nutritionj.com/content/7/1/8"><font color="#034B8E">Nutrition Journal</font></a> finds that adolescents with
ADHD have a noticably different distribution of fatty acids in their cells. But, contrary to what many have suggested, it doesn&#39;t seem to have much to do
with... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 09:22:55 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Then the Bomb Drops ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Well I just tell everyone how wonderful A is doing in his new school at at about 12:45 I got a call from the Police officer at his school. A &#39;went off&#39;
at school and has just been charged with Disorderly Conduct. The nice thing, I didn&#39;t ahve to go get him. They take care of him and control him for the
day. He will face consequences at school as well as now having yet another court hearing.
<br>
<br>
My heart now aches, when will this slow down?
<br>
<br>
Fern ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 15:38:34 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Update ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11104/t/Update.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Well I have to thank Lav for sending me a little &#39;hey how are you&#39; PM. I have been so busy that I don&#39;t have as much time as I would like to chat
with everyone.
<br>
<br>
Well as many of you know my son ran again in February. He was found in downtown Minneapolis and we didn&#39;t back off of the stolen vehicle charges when he
was found. &#39;A&#39; ran on Feb 22nd and was found Feb 23rd trying to get on a bus to &#39;somewhere&#39;. He wasn&#39;t mad at us when he ran, he was mad... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 04 May 2009 09:05:05 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ teens and cats ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11097/t/teens-and-cats.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <p>For all of you with teenagers or who had teenagers, you may want to know why they really have a lot in common with cats:</p>

<p>1. Neither teenagers nor cats turn their heads when you call them by name.</p>

<p>2. No matter what you do for them, it is not enough. Indeed, all human efforts are barely adequate to compensate for the privilege of waiting on them hand
and foot.</p>

<p>3. You rarely see a cat walking outside of the house with an adult human being, and it can be safely said... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 11:38:16 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Proms ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11096/t/Proms.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Well, as DD is finishing up her senior year, prom has come along.  We live in a very large school district, and there are three high schools.  One prom was
last weekend that she went to with a boy that she dates, but who wants to date another girl.  It was fun, but not, and in the long run she came home with very
hurt feelings.
<br>
<br>
She was feeling badly about her own prom and not having a date.  A young man that she is friends with spoke to her about it on facebook and asked if she... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 29 Apr 2009 10:21:40 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Drug screening ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ B has always had to undergo random drug screenings b/c of concerns tied to previous drug and alcohol use.  She has always tested negative to anything, but yet
always shows a reading for alcohol.  Just last week she showed a small reading for marijuana as well, but once again not in the positive range.  I just
wondered if anyone understood how these numbers worked and what type of involvement B must have had with marijuana to get a reading, but not a positive one.
<br>
<br>
Last week:  MJ--13,... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 27 Feb 2009 12:52:01 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Sometimes Teens Can Do Amazing GOOD Things ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <a target="_blank" href="http://bubbazartwork.com/"></a><a href="http://bubbazartwork.com/">http://bubbazartwork.com/</a>
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<br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 11 Nov 2008 11:14:45 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ 50 Things ... for Independent Living ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Our agency sent out this out for all of us who have teens, to help them get ready for independent living:
<br>
1. Help then get an original copy of their birth certificate.
<br>
2. Help them get a social security card (and wallet to put it in).
<br>
3. Enroll them in a school program in which they can succeed.
<br>
4. Help them get a picture identification card.
<br>
5. Find out if they are eligible for a Medicaid card.
<br>
6. Help them get copies of medical records.
<br>
7. Start a... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 26 Oct 2008 20:56:42 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Shaving ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ This is an awkward question...is it now the fashion for teen girls to shave the pubic area?  The reason I&#39;m asking...apparently back when L lived with us
she told kids at school that K does not shave, and supposedly kids make fun of K about it even now.  This one just threw me off guard.  Maybe I&#39;m just
totally not up to date...
<br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 06:46:49 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ My son RAN ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ My son ran today. He is 15 years old and ran sometime between 12:15pm and 3pm today. A took one of our vehicles and left a note that he was going to go to the
Canadian border (no passport) or Lake of the Woods. I have the cell phone so luckily I can get a hold of friends and intercept calls as they have come in.
Those calls have helped lead to some ideas of where he could be. We found out that he has been planning this run for some time now and that he planned to
pickup a girlfriend he has in... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 02:18:26 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Smoking ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/10792/t/Smoking.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ 14yo B is a smoker.  She told me she used to smoke 3 packs a day, but eventually worked it back down to 1.  This was before entering foster care.  She tells me
that she is not smoking now, but I really don&#39;t believe it.  We allow her to walk in our town (very small!--only three stoplights) and visit with friends
in public places like the park or the cafe.  I can&#39;t smell it on her and have no clear evidence that she is smoking.  Both other teens tell me she is.  So
what do I do?  I... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 22:40:37 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Social networking sites: facebook, myspace ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/10745/t/Social-networking-sites-facebook-myspace.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <h1>Unrepentant on Facebook? Expect jail time</h1><a href="http://www.cnn.com/2008/CRIME/07/18/facebook.evidence.ap/index.html"><br>
<br>
http://www.cnn.com/2008/CRIME/07/18/facebook.evidence.ap/index.html</a>
<br>
<br>

<ul>
  <li>Prosecutors use Facebook, MySpace photos to show lack of remorse
  <br></li>

  <li>Students who made light of drinking received jail sentences for DUI
  <br></li>

  <li>Defense attorneys also use social networking sites to dig up dirt on witnesses</li>... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 11:08:32 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Daughter Ran Away to Birth Family ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/10711/t/Daughter-Ran-Away-to-Birth-Family.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <p>Hello Everyone,
<br>
<br>
It has been a long time since I posted; almost a year now. My AD who will be 17 next month ran away to her birth aunt&#39;s Section 8 apartment the day after
Mother&#39;s Day. She has an 8 month old son with her. We got into an argument on Mother&#39;s Day and she left. We filed a runaway report with police and a
few days later CPS showed up at our door because my daughter called them with allegations that I am a racist and I tried to prevent her from making a... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 23:10:56 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Naked photos, e-mail get teens in trouble ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/10660/t/Naked-photos-e-mail-get-teens-in-trouble.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <a target="_blank" href="http://www.cnn.com/2008/CRIME/06/04/naked.teens.ap/index.html">http://www.cnn.com/2008/CRIME/06/04/naked.teens.ap/index.html</a>
<br>
<br>

<ul>
  <li>Snapping naked photos, e-mailing them to friends a hot teen trend</li>

  <li>Photos can fall into wrong hands, wind up on Internet</li>

  <li>That can lead to criminal charges</li>

  <li>Cases have been reported in several states</li>

  <li></li>

  <li style="list-style: none"><br></li>
</ul>

<blockquote>... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 10:33:29 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Job concerns ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/10585/t/Job-concerns.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <p>L has been working her part time job at Subway.  She is supposed to be off at 10 PM, and I agreed to pick her up then even though it is actually past my
bedtime (usually 9:30 PM).  I thought this would be no problem, just get her at 10, then go to bed a little late.  In reality though, she&#39;s not getting
done closing until 10:30 or later.  It seems like just two teens are closing the store.  Are they purposely taking longer so that they can get paid more? 
I&#39;ve told L that she may... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sat, 10 May 2008 09:51:17 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ First "official" boyfriend ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/10572/t/First-official-boyfriend.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Well, Jo has had her first official boyfriend.  By official I mean one that she didn&#39;t sneak about.  She told us about him and he met the criteria of being
only one grade higher so we allowed phone calls.  Actually, we allowed unlimited phone calls.  One weekend night they talked the entire night!  I know because
every now and then I turned on my speakerphone.  This has been going on for two weeks.  Last night when I turned on the speakerphone for a minute I heard her
say that it was 5... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 22:13:30 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ videos to help teens and parenets of teens ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/2546/t/videos-to-help-teens-and-parenets-of-teens.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <!--EZCODE LINK START--><a href="http://www.videojug.com/tag/teens-13-18-years" target="top">www.videojug.com/tag/teens-13-18-years</a><!--EZCODE LINK END--> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 07:48:31 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Guaging ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/2548/t/Guaging.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Do you know about this?  J. guaged his ear.  It's like a really fat ear ring that makes a bigger hole.  It's so gross I can hardly look at it.  He thinks it is so cool.  I told him he's not going to think so when he's 35.  I sound just like my parents..... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 13:06:13 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ you think your teen is out of line? ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/2547/t/you-think-your-teen-is-out-of-line-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Juvenile arrested in theft of fire engine<br><br>A 16 year old from Madera was arrested Saturday night on numerous charges including suspicion of stealing a Visalia Fire Department fire engine valued at approximately $450,000.<br>  <br>Visalia Police report firefighters responded to a medical aid in the 3900 block of West Meadow at 11:22 p.m. At 11:45 p.m. a witness observed the juvenile enter the 2006 Pierce fire engine and drive away from the scene.<br><br>Officers located the suspect... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 08:28:35 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Fast girls and text messaging ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/2549/t/Fast-girls-and-text-messaging.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Watch out if you have teen boys.  Some girls are fast and they send crazy amounts of text messages.  One sent 54 messages in 90 minutes!  I think we could get a restraining order for less than that!  We changed a phone number today just to get away from her.  Ick!! ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Mon, 03 Mar 2008 21:18:34 GMT</pubDate>
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