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			<title><![CDATA[ One step at a time.... ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11387/t/One-step-at-a-time-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I know I have not seemed a very active member here up to this point, but the information here that all have shared has been a priceless resource to me and my
family.  I have spent days at a time reading and have still only scratched the surface....thank you all for sharing!!! 
<br>
A touch of background....dh and I have been married for 18 yrs, have 3 bios 93g, 96b, 99g.  Then we had a boy in 06 who died suddenly at the end of Feb this
year.  Adoption has been something dh and I have spoken... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 2009 17:55:26 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Being "Teased" again.... ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11358/t/Being-Teased-again-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ CW called last  week and had a sibling group or part of a sibling group, she wasn&#39;t for sure that they might need to place.   She found out ages
(didn&#39;t even know them for sure to start with.)  and called me back, G-7, B-9, B-10.    The girl seems to have the most issues and they will not be placing
together.  They may, but will probably not place the two boys together.  Seems in foster homes they don&#39;t do well together.  Seems E was in a foster to
adopt home, with first time... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 14:14:04 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ possible adoption news ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I couldnt&#39; resist looking at adoptuskids.org this morning and you won&#39;t believe this but my S is no longer listed.  I hope that means she got a good
home.  I thought I might be sad if this ever happened but I am not.  Maybe I am healing some too.  A is still listed.  I heard she went back to the foster
parents she had when we got them.  I think that is where she was happy and should have been allowed to stay from the get go. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 21 Aug 2009 09:06:28 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ amazing adoption internet scam ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11284/t/amazing-adoption-internet-scam.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <a target="_blank" href="http://www.thebostonchannel.com/news/20247430/detail.html">http://www.thebostonchannel.com/news/20247430/detail.html</a>
<br>
<br>

<h1 class="Headline">Mother Finds Own Child For Sale Online</h1>

<h2 class="SubHead">Officials Investigate Apparent Adoption Scam</h2>

<p><span class="posted">POSTED: 8:28 am EDT August 1, 2009</span><span class="updated"><br>
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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (LavendernOldJeans)</author>
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			<pubDate>Mon, 03 Aug 2009 09:20:53 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Title IV-E Adoption Assistance and Foster Care Programs ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11272/t/Title-IV-E-Adoption-Assistance-and-Foster-Care-Programs.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <a target="_blank" href="http://www.hhs.gov/recovery/programs/acf/adoption-foster.html">http://www.hhs.gov/recovery/programs/acf/adoption-foster.html</a>
<br>
<br>

<h1>Title IV-E Adoption Assistance and Foster Care Programs</h1>

<h3>Additional Funding Available</h3>

<p>The Department of Health and Human Services announced the release of $187 million authorized by the American Recovery and Reinvestment Act to support
adoption assistance and foster care programs in all 50 states and the... ]]></description>

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			<author>feeds@yuku.com (LavendernOldJeans)</author>
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			<pubDate>Tue, 28 Jul 2009 06:39:07 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Selecting Agencies ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <a target="_blank" href="http://www.forever-families.org/foreverfamilies.asp">http://www.forever-families.org/foreverfamilies.asp</a>
<br>
<br>
I went last week to a meeting and listened to a rep from this agency speak.  It was a luncheon deal, so very little Q &amp; A time, so I went and spoke with
her after.  One of the things that they seemed to do a lot of was place infants that are given up under that 72 hour law.  I asked her what they do to obtain
medical info, etc.  She said usually... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 22 Jul 2009 11:38:36 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Does anyone care? Nola&#39;s MN&#39;s poetry about adoption and foster care ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ I placed this in the philosopy section and in fostering. Her poetry and other writings are quite good, but we tend to lose them in other posts. I wanted her to
have her own thread so they can get a wider circulation.
<br>
<br>
A poem written by Nola&#39;s older daughter in 2008 (age 11) about what it is like to be in foster care.
<br>
<br>
Does anyone Care!
<br>
<br>
It&#39;s me in my
<br>
closet, shivering with
<br>
fear, hearing the screams
<br>
and shouting in the background.
<br>
Does... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 21 Jul 2009 11:45:48 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ We Passed the 1st Step! ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Our AW came out today with her assistant to do the health inspection and watch dh do the fire inspection. She looked the place over and said she was highly
impressed over how immaculate and clean everything is and how well behaved the children are. There IS a law about sq ft...though she didn&#39;t even know how
to get it in writing or where to find it. That figures. That may come in helpful if we do a 2nd group later on down the road. But they were able to count our
detached playroom which... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 17:55:53 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Life Book Ideas ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11211/t/Life-Book-Ideas.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Well...awhile back while I was reading I found some helpful info on life book ideas on here. But now that I need it again I can&#39;t find it. So, just figured
I&#39;d start the topic over or somebody might could give me the link to the old thread. But I am ready to start making our&#39;s so that they are completed by
the time we need them. I am not into scrapbooking at all....maybe in 50 years when I don&#39;t have small children rummaging through all of the stuff!.....and
am just in need of... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2009 12:13:33 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Adoption TV show ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11189/t/Adoption-TV-show.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ I loved this show when it was on a few years back.  Here is a link to view ALL of the episodes:
<br>
<br>
<a title="http://www.hallmarkchannel.com/publish/consumer/home/shows/adoption.html" target="_blank" href="http://www.hallmarkchannel.com/publish/consumer/home/shows/adoption.html">http://www.hallmarkchannel.com/publish/consumer/home/shows/adoption.html</a>
<br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 07 Jun 2009 12:19:01 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Adoption Frustrations ~ Share your story ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11173/t/Adoption-Frustrations-Share-your-story.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ God has laid it on my DH heart to be a voice for those wanting to adopt out of the foster care system. He is frustrated at the road blocks, the power
struggles, the total lack of care that we encounter. At first he wanted to limit to TX stories, but the stories are the same no matter what state they come
from.   So all are welcome!  He would like to compile a list of stories about different families and the frustrations of trying to adopt. If you would be
willing to share your story with him... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 22 May 2009 13:11:15 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Thoughts?  Nola...chime in here.... ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11147/t/Thoughts-Nola-chime-in-here-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <img src="file:///C:/Users/Home/AppData/Local/Temp/moz-screenshot-35.jpg" alt="">

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      <td><strong>Name:</strong></td>

      <td><strong>Joviani</strong></td>
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			<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 09:14:51 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Foster care-government clinical trials ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11145/t/Foster-care-government-clinical-trials.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ <table class="data_table" style="MARGIN-TOP: 2ex" cellspacing="0" cellpadding="0" width="100%" border="0">
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        <a title="Show study NCT00701194: Early Intervention Foster Care: A Prevention Trial" target="_blank"... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Fri, 15 May 2009 03:55:28 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ the "diabolical" mother ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ So, I was reading in the sitting area last night for B&#39;s karate. 2 sisters were taking karate, and the 4th grader had a guest who was sitting in the row in
front of me. All 3 girls before class had been looking at B with interest and much giggling and whispering.
<br>
<br>
She begins the conversation, first introducing herself most politely:
<br>
&quot;So you&#39;re B&#39;s gran?&quot;
<br>
&quot;yes.&quot;
<br>
&quot;And he&#39;s adopted?&quot;
<br>
&quot;Yes.&quot;
<br>
&quot;Well, I am... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 22 Apr 2009 09:10:02 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ How long did you have to wait for your TPR/adoption? ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Felicia just said Peanut and L were placed in Jan 2006. They just had TPR and the adoptin will be in late May.
<br>
<br>
B &amp; N were taken into care in August 2002 and placed with us in July 2003. TPR took place in June of 2005, and they were adopted in early August.
<br>
<br>
So Peanut and L took the longer.
<br>
<br>
How about everyone else?
<br>
<br> ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 10:51:52 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Our current situation... ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Well.....here we sit...homestudy updated for the past month and our agency rep. has submitted us for a grand total of ZERO children/sibling groups.  This is a
recent e-mail I sent to her.  I thought the questions were legitimate but she didn&#39;t answer any of them...
<br>
<font color="black" face="Arial" size="2"><span style="font-size: 10pt; font-family: Arial; color: black;"><br>
Just checking in.  We are assuming that we haven&#39;t been submitted for any situations since we haven&#39;t... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2009 10:40:13 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Waiting.... ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ We were sent a very short bio and picture of 3 kids 5, 6, and 9.  Younger girls, oldest is a boy.   This was about the first of March.   The cut off date was
the end of March.  I emailed the worker last week, no news.  I emailed the worker today and got a phone call. She didn&#39;t know anything other than only 2
families enquired.   I find it hard to believe that only two families enquired on this cute trio.  Is it that the workers don&#39;t send it out to enough
people?  Or do people not... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 07 Apr 2009 13:55:48 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Transitioning an &quot;institutionalized&quot; child ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11054/t/Transitioning-an-quot-institutionalized-quot-child.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Feel free to move this, if it&#39;s in the wrong section!
<br>
<br>
A child we are considering has been in a residential setting since he was 6 - he&#39;s 13 now.  He&#39;s had a few failed matches, but no failed placements, as
he never made it far enough to go home with anyone.  I&#39;ve talked to his old worker and a current worker, both within my agency, who I believe have given me
good information on him, and I&#39;ve read his file back to front.
<br>
<br>
I&#39;m looking for information... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2009 17:28:23 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Legal risk placements.... ]]></title>
			<link>http://fosteringandadoptingolderchildren.yuku.com/topic/11028/t/Legal-risk-placements-.html</link>
			<description><![CDATA[ Anyone here have experience with a legal risk placement?  If so, I&#39;d love to hear what you think of them in general.  We were &quot;approved&quot; by our
agency for up to three basic level children (based on space) last week and are trying to decide between:
<br>
<br>
~Foster-to-Adopt
<br>
~Legal Risk Placement
<br>
~Going on both lists and see what happens
<br>
<br>
We hear that there are a number of LR placements coming out of a county south of us and that many are AA children, fairly... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Sun, 08 Mar 2009 21:31:13 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ homestudy tomorrow, birth child doesn't want any more ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <p>   Our birth daughter, 17.5, doesn&#39;t want anymore children in our home. She didn&#39;t want us to do foster care either. We adopted 2 boys from Russia
when she was 12 and one has been hell on wheels for the past 5 years. He is getting better but is a behavioral handful, true. We have a perm. foster daughter
too who is 15. My husband and I feel like we are meeting all the childrens developmental needs, emotionally and physically. We feel like it is a good time to
add a child. She says... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 13:55:46 GMT</pubDate>
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