Nola, I have worried that I may have sounded insensitive to your daughter's distress, and wanted to assure you that I did not take it lightly. By all means, complain as much as you need to to correct the situation. It's just that a lot of the little boy's actions...from what you have said...sound not that unusual for a child who likes another child at that age. You don't want to brand him as a sexual harrasser if he is not. If you can find out from talking to your daughter if he really has crossed a line or not, that will help you in talking to the teacher. Of course, at the heart of it is that your daughter is very distressed, and the teacher needs to act on that, even if the boy is innocent of wrongdoing.