No I didn't take you as being insensitive at all. I guess my fustration mainly stems from lack of communication from grade to grade. I thought we had this dealt with last year, now it is back and she is MUCH more stressed this year than last. That I think is her learning what is and isn't OK behaiviour for little girls and little boys. As to what is going on ????? that is just it I have no clue! That is what I told them last year. I don't know if it real or if she is making it up. I do know he sent her a "I love you" note last year. That is what I told the school, I just wanted enough supervision that there could be no chance for something to happen. I really think she is scared of him this year. She started the day asking me if I remembered I was to ask for prayer for her tomorrow. I assured her I would and told her to not let it ruin her weekend mom and dad would handle it. Yet several times today she has said stuff about it.