On Monday I sent a note to school, more like a letter, explaining that MN felt she was in her words being "bothered" by R. In adult terms stalked and sexually harrased would come close :D . I told the teacher the stradigies I had given her like moving if he sat next to her going to the end of the line if he got behind her and telling the teacher EVERY time he said something in approapate to her. I stressed with her histroy this did not need to be happening. I also stressed that her her mind this is what is going on, not that it really is, as I am not there to see. I allowed MN to read the note and put it in her back pack. Dad followed it up with a call to the principal. Bottom line is the child is no longer bothering her. He even missed a recess, which makes me wonder if the school had already had problems. We were very careful to state she precieves this is going on.