I would dearly love to take more. My problem is in that DH is the one who stays home. In reality, space wise, we could do two more space wise. Sometimes dh talks about doing just that, other times, he says never again.

I took a very difficult step and asked the agency to close our foster license. If he decides he wants to parent more kids, he will have to be willing to go through the whole process again. That makes it so that I know he is commited to the idea. I also don't know if we would adopt at that point, or only foster. We really wouldn't be able to have a safe choice for guardians for additional children were dh and I both to die, so adoption may never be another option as that certainly has to be a consideration.

The story would be radically different if I didn't have to work.