I agree! I think you can add more kids younger or older or both with the right child/children. The key is to choose kids that can handle more kids. When it says needs to be the youngest, or only then I wouldn't read any more on that child. I would keep searching and keep talking to CWs. If you can do foster to adopt this is a fast track to getting kids. If you can do respite it will give you a much better idea of what kids in your life are like. They really do turn your world upside down and shake it up! That doesn't matter how they arrive in your world.