UNM,

We are using a private agency because Virginia's state DSS is very reluctant to share HS with another state up to the point of refusing. If we adopt from our state in VA, all fees are waived because the state gives the agency a grant. If we choose an out of state adoption they require that the sending state pay all after placement fees and of course, whatever the sending state allows for one time expenses gets reimbursed to us for the remainder of the costs of the homestudy and training, visitation and lawyer fees.

The upfront cost (to keep our options open) is 2050 but thru grants, state subsidy agreement and reimbursement, and employer reimbursement of up to 2500...our adoption(s) will be free in the end.

H