You did the right thing. Reminds me of those high pressure salesman who insist some great deal will vanish if you don't sign on the dotted line right now.

I think you are on target calling it ransom.

I'm sorry...for the children and for your disappointment. Remember ...don't let desperation rule you. (And you didn't.) It's so hard to wait when you want a child so bad. BTDT.

Hang in there.
GM


"Be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle."
Author Unknown