The adoption would have to be finalized so we could have the kids on our travel documents. DH doesn't even know if he will be hired, but is going to do the interview. We feel like if he takes a job, the kids will go to TPR. Or if he declines it, the kids will RU. What a predicament. When he applied months ago the SW was still talking RU. However, now the biodad is required to do drug testing and a psych eval and she feels he never will. His blow up at the office a few weeks ago after being told to take one is a strong indication of that. Right now we are inclined to decline any job offer and revisit the idea of moving overseas again if they go to TPR and are adopted. We have decided to adopt if it goes that route. Feels like we are picking between two kids or living overseas again.