It's got to be tough on a kiddo like your dd -- old enough to have some understanding of what's going on. Mine were both young at TPR and at the signing our equivalent of the 33s and didn't know enough to wrestle with the big picture. Little guy wasn't with us when we signed for him. Little gal was with us when we signed for her.

Your dd will come around. She knows she's where she belongs.

Congratulations to all of you for reaching this milestone and starting the next chapter of your life together.