Work on today being normal, but especially normal---including the things she likes best about living with you.

Our kids were elated but N was very sad, too, at TPR. 33s were more ho-hum because we hadn't mentioned appeal. Adoption was a much bigger deal to them than yto us. For us the big deal was the TPR because bios had been allowed so many appeals and continuations.

But for ya'll, jubilation! Are the grandparents ecstatic?